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Choice Is A Gift! Use It!


Pauline Grouette

  • Top Certified Awareness Coach for 2023

  • CBT Practitioner

  • #1 Best Selling Author

  • Dental Consultant

  • Registered Dental Assistant

  • Vision Board Facilitator

  • Motivational Speaker

There was a time when I struggled to find purpose, and was just going through the motions day by day, in victim mode then survival mode.


I ALWAYS knew that I was destined for more!  Determination, strength, courage and self-faith are what got me through. I realized that no one else was going to do the heavy lifting for me.  I had to learn to rely on myself!  I can help you along your path and how to avoid making the same mistakes!

Read on...

I wasn't going to let life's challenges hold me down!!

Growing up in a household where there were strong limiting beliefs and inconsistent structure, my paternity was that elephant in the room that no one was allowed to talk about.  The idea of being whole, body and soul, was foreign to me.   Sound familiar?  

​As a teenager, I developed my independence in order to become the role model I envisioned.  Innately, I knew that I deserved more than what was being presented to me but without the proper direction, I did not know how, where, why, when or what that looked like? 

I didn't know who I was! As a survivor of rape, abuse, unknown paternity, all lead to suicidal ideologies.  Thoughts of never being good enough for my family increased my insecurities.  I grew into adulthood feeling that I constantly had to prove myself to family, friends, peers, and even myself, so that I would not sink deep into victim territory.

My life was a façade!  After 50 years, lessons of placing myself in vulnerable, life changing situations; divorce, single parenting, workplace harassment and bullying, only benefited to make me the strong person I am today.  Will, determination, strength, courage, and a small amount of self-faith are what got me through.  I am now proud to be able to say that I live to serve ALL people, just like you because I was you! 

Community taught me that love really can be found everywhere, and slowly I learned to trust others.  The idea that “it takes a whole village to raise a child,” really hit home for me.  My struggles taught me that it is okay to ask for help.   I realized that I needed to unlearn the strong ancestral limiting beliefs that I was raised with, in order to soar to my highest potential.  By becoming a client myself, I opened my heart, my mind and learned to trust my intuition. Through a healthy lifestyle, meditation, journaling, and self-reflection, I remembered who I was inside and would never let her down again!


Through my loss, struggles and pain I learned that I can be my authentic self.  Guiding and serving people as equals, who are dedicated to becoming their true selves, is what I am meant to do.  Self-empowerment is my passion and purpose!  Success and confidence strategies, helped me find that there are many ways to achieve the outcomes I dreamed of. Let me be your guide to success!

About Paulne

My Childhood


"I always dreamed of teaching others.  If I could help in any way possible to bring comfort to others and make their life easier, I did what I could, even at a young age.  My mission was to learn as much as I could so that I could pass on this knowledge to help others."

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Mission Statement:

"To empower and motivate people to reclaim their authentic selves."

My intention is to leave this world knowing that I have done my best to be part of the ripple effect of changing lives around the world!


Organized Robb Nash concert


Kampala School in Africa

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Bucket list

"I started with motivation and drive to do the best with what I had!"

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Visions and Dreams

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Own my dream home in the country

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My timeline

6 events that catapulted my life and personal growth to another level!


"Setting Goals and Achieving them!"
(B.A. and Dental Assisting) 


"Strength was my foundation to give my children everything I could"

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"Together our strength can move mountains!"


" Giving of my time to those who need it most."  


"After 50 years Dreams Do come True"
Original Aguesse Homestead


"My strength will heal the generations past & present."

October 2021

Becoming a Coach so that I could repair the relationship with my Mom and  heal the generational limiting beliefs.

September 2021

Connecting with my paternal family intrinsically and spiritually.    


Mission Trip to Kampala School in Africa


Meeting the man of my dreams

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Becoming a Mom 

1995, 2000

Graduations from Post-secondary


To be Continued...

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